That’s right—I met my partner, Ben, through Cheeky Events! In 2022, when I was running events part-time, Ben added our first Cheeky Events Instagram account, and offered to help out by hosting. I always joke he got away with never buying a ticket because he volunteered, and we ended up dating. Three months later, we were living together with our cheeky cavoodle, Teddy, and to our surprise, expecting a baby! We didn’t expect to get pregnant because I was previously told I had fertility issues with an ex-partner years before. But we both believe it’s never too soon with the right person.
We conceived our daughter, Everleigh, on a weekend getaway to Melbourne and named her after a bar we visited in Fitzroy. While on maternity leave from my teaching job, Ben encouraged me to turn this side hustle into a full-time career so I could spend more time with our daughter (and him and our cheeky cavoodle). He even drove me across Sydney to expand events beyond the eastern suburbs and joined me to launch Cheeky Events in Melbourne, Perth, and London—with our baby in tow.
We recently bought our dream house together on the Gold Coast and finally have space for family from the UK to come and visit.
A lot of people think we moved quickly, but we both knew we wanted the same thing and had very similar goals (to settle down, to work for ourselves, to experience living in another part of Australia, to travel lots).
We were both in our mid-30s and didn’t want to mess around and play games. This only happened for me because I decided to stop settling for situationships and have the confidence to say what I was looking for from the beginning. On the first proper date, I was worried that Ben was quieter than my usual type, but my usual extroverted type had never worked out, and I’m so glad I told myself to give “a good guy” a chance because he is honestly the calm to my crazy busy life that I needed. Likewise, he says I bring the fun energy he needed in his. It’s funny how, personality-wise, we would agree that opposites do attract, but then again, our values and goals are very similar.
Now, we’re looking into becoming foster parents and can’t wait to grow old together, continuing to support each other’s businesses (Ben owns a finance broker company for small businesses wanting asset finance to buy trucks, etc., to grow their business) & to continue developing as people.